GOD’S WORD FOR RAISING GREAT KIDS
Sunday, April 27, 2008
MY FAMILY
Children are a blessing from God. Many people treat them as if they are
anything but a blessing. They will be more of a blessing if you apply
God’s Word in the way you raise them. Stand on God’s Word for your
family. Believe His promises.
For He has strengthened the bars of your gates; he has blessed your children within you. Psalms 147:13 NKJ
Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb is a reward. 4 Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, so are the children of one’s youth. 5 Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; they shall not be ashamed, but shall speak with their enemies in the gate. Psalms 127:3-5 NKJ
The righteous man walks in his integrity; his children are blessed after him. Proverbs 20:7 NKJ
Your wife shall be like a fruitful vine in the very heart of your house, your children like olive plants all around your table. Psalms 128:3 NKJ
A wise child is an incredible blessing, but a foolish child will bring years of pain and grief. Foolish, undisciplined children disrespect their parents. Your children will give you the respect due you as a parent if you discipline, correct, teach and train them as the Word of God instructs. Protect your children and be careful over their friends and whom they associate with.
A wise son makes a father glad, but a foolish son is a grief to his mother. Proverbs 10:1 NAS
A wise son makes a glad father, but a self-confident and foolish man despises his mother and puts her to shame. Proverbs 15:20 AMP
A foolish son is a grief to his father, and bitterness to her who bore him. Proverbs 17:25 NKJ
Whoever keeps the law [of God and man] is a wise son, but he who is a companion of gluttons and the carousing, self-indulgent, and extravagant shames his father. Proverbs 28:7 AMP
The father of the righteous will greatly rejoice, and he who begets a wise child will delight in him. 25 Let your father and your mother be glad, and let her who bore you rejoice. Proverbs 23:24-25 NKJ
Take responsibility for the raising of your own children. You shape their future! Eli got in trouble with God because he allowed his sons to do whatever they wanted to do. Undisciplined, untrained children lose out on their inheritance —spiritual and material.
Train up a child in the way he should go [and in keeping with his individual gift or bent], and when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6 AMP
A servant who acts wisely will rule over a son who acts shamefully, and will share in the inheritance among brothers. Proverbs 17:2 NAS
Don’t be shocked when your kid does dumb stuff. They are kids! You will need patience and you will need to be consistent in your discipline and training —not just for a day —for at least 18 years!
Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline will drive it far from him. Proverbs 22:15 AMP
The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left undisciplined brings his mother to shame. Proverbs 29:15 AMP
Correct your son, and he will give you rest; yes, he will give delight to your heart. Proverbs 29:17 AMP
Withhold not discipline from the child; for if you strike and punish him with the [reedlike] rod, he will not die. 14 You shall whip him with the rod and deliver his life from Sheol (Hades, the place of the dead). Proverbs 23:13-14 AMP
He who spares his rod [of discipline] hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines diligently and punishes him early. Proverbs 13:24 AMP (…disciplines him promptly NKJ)
Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. Proverbs 19:18 KJV (…do not be a willing party to his death. NIV)
Correct your son, and he will give you rest; yes, he will give delight to your soul. Proverbs 29:17 NKJ (…he will give you peace…NIV)
A child is accountable for his/her attitude and behavior just the same as an adult. “He’s just a kid” is a cop out. Kids are responsible for themselves and should be held accountable.
Even a child is known by his deeds, whether what he does is pure and right.
Proverbs 20:11 NKJ
Your leadership style in the home relates directly to your leadership style in other areas. You can act like you have it all together out there, but back home your kids know the real story! Your first responsibility is your own family. You cannot abdicate your familial responsibilities and then expect God to use you in the church. If you want a leadership role in the church you must be a leader in your home. Show some character and integrity in your home and you will be fit to minister to the Body of Christ!
He must rule his own household well, keeping his children under control, with true dignity, commanding their respect in every way and keeping them respectful. 5 For if a man does not know how to rule his own household, how is he to take care of the church of God? 1 Timothy 3:4-5 AMP
Let deacons be the husbands of but one wife, and let them manage [their] children and their own households well. 1 Timothy 3:12 AMP
[These elders should be] men who are of unquestionable integrity and are irreproachable, the husband of [but] one wife, whose children are [well trained and are] believers, not open to the accusation of being loose in morals and conduct or unruly and disorderly. Titus 1:6 AMP (…wild and disobedient NIV)
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Righteous Now
Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. 2 Corinthians 5:17 KJV
Therefore if any person is [ingrafted] in Christ (the Messiah) he is a new creation (a new creature altogether); the old [previous moral and spiritual condition] has passed away. Behold, the fresh and new has come! 2 Corinthians 5:17 AMP
“Therefore if any man be in Christ…” What does it mean to be “in Christ”? Galatians 3:27 says, “For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ.” You are baptized into Christ when you receive Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Romans 10:9-10 says, “That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.” And Romans 10:13 says, “For whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.” The moment
Defeating Strife
These six things the Lord hates, indeed, seven are an abomination to Him: 17 A proud look [the spirit that makes one overestimate himself and underestimate others], a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood, 18 A heart that manufactures wicked thoughts and plans, feet that are swift in running to evil, 19 A false witness who breathes out lies [even under oath], and he who sows discord among his brethren. Proverbs 6:16-19 AMP
Faith Facts
Faith is persistent
Luke 11:9-10 AMP
So I say to you, Ask and keep on asking and it shall be given you; seek and keep on seeking and you shall find; knock and keep on knocking and the door shall be opened to you. 10 For everyone who asks and keeps on asking receives; and he who seeks and keeps on seeking finds; and to him who knocks and keeps on knocking, the door shall be opened.
John 16:24 AMP
Up to this time you have not asked a [single] thing in My Name [as presenting all that I AM]; but now ask and keep on asking and you will receive, so that your joy (gladness, delight) may be full and complete.
Faith is single-minded
James 1:5-8 AMP
If any of you is deficient in wisdom, let him ask of the giving God [Who gives] to everyone liberally and ungrudgingly, without reproaching or faultfinding, and it will be given him. 6 Only it must be in faith that he asks with no wavering (no hesitating, no doubting). For the one who wavers (hesitates, doubts) is like the